25+ Times Someone Called You A Hot Mess But All You Heard Was That You're Hot

Emma Saven

Oct 28, 2025 7:00 AM EDT

Every girl dreams of being hot, the mess is just what life gifts us along the way, and we're embracing it! Being a woman in our 20s, navigating life, friendship, men, and a career isn't always easy, but boy, is it fun. Life's a rollercoaster, and just when it feels like we're plummeting face-first toward the ground, something shifts, and suddenly we're soaring again, surrounded by endless possibilities.

Being a young (or not-so-young) woman is exhausting, hormones and all, and dealing with men doesn't exactly make things stress-free. So it's no surprise that sometimes all we crave is a hot bubble bath, with Pad Thai on the way, and a fresh set of sheets to start the evening right. And yes, the phone is strictly on silent, no one's disturbing our one sacred hour of self-care! (Well… maybe we'll pick up the 17th FaceTime from Mom, but that's it.) Life's messy, but that's what makes it so exciting. We'll remember the smell of that $80 Zara Home candle we just had to buy, because it will forever remind us of the chaos and beauty of our 20s.

So, let’s raise a glass to the girls who only hear the word hot when being called a hot mess! As challenging as our 20s can feel at times, I can’t imagine anything more dreadful than a squeaky-clean life with everything perfectly figured out. We’ll never be this young or this hot again, so now’s the time to make mistakes, and make memories…especially the ones we'll regret in the morning!
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25+ Times Someone Called You A Hot Mess But All You Heard Was That You're Hot

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